
Would I prefer to grow in love with someone, or wait a life time for that perfect someone?
By O'Jay-Maria Harris
Growing to love someone takes time and a lot of patience and persistence; just by trying to make things work only makes the relationship special. This also helps you appreciate the person for who they are. Life is short and I want to enjoy it by making the best out of it, so I guess I don’t have much time to wait a life time for that perfect somebody.
I know I had promised myself I would never settle, but if this works and I’m happy I consider this more than what I bargained for. And if I was to ever meet my Fairy Tale Dream Guy now that I have settled, I promise to give him my best friends address. He he
Have I ever been hurt?
Oh yeah, a million times! But I could never blame love for what I have been through and if because of falling in love with the wrong person made me cry, I probably deserved it.
A lot of people do comment and say love is overrated and abused, but self love is the greatest love of all and I’m full of it. Therefore, loving all over again is as easy as ABC… Smiling – But I could tell you this, if you have to ask yourself ‘what is love’, then you have never been truly in love. I scream, ‘why LOVE’!?! To be honest though, I would prefer to be with or wait for Mr. Right, so in the meantime I’m not going to stop trying out other sports :-) and if Mr. Right does not come along, I know for sure I’m someone’s Mrs. Right!
So my advice to anyone is, ‘grow in love with whomever your heart yearns for’. Do not be afraid to die if you are not willing to live - same with love; do not worry about getting your heart broken, if you wait for that it will come. But do not occupy yourself with heart breaks; it should be kept at bay and seen as a life lesson, move on. You are better off in love than in trying to find that exclusive city of gold (Mr. Right). For all you know that same person that you keep avoiding is your Mr. Right or Mrs. Right. The right person is the person you give a chance and if that is not what you want you have time to move on.
Another one of my 'Naive Expectations' yet it contradicts everything... What I say is not always what my intentions are and what I do only breaks the trend.