When Love Hurts and the Heart Grieves

It was never ‘just for the moment’, I lied and now I’m just waiting on that moment I can hold him for more than what I wanted it to be. Wishing I had opened up when he gave me more than ‘just for the moment’.

I know this love is real because he constantly runs through my head and it hurts knowing he isn’t there for me to tell him how I really feel. I want to pick up the phone and call him to tell him I’m sorry, just to tell him the truth and that I really cared. Not If I could turn back the hands of time, but wanting to – wanting to spend the rest of my life with him and not ‘just for the moment’.

God sent him in my life to open my eyes showing me everything we had shared was real. To love this way shouldn’t be just another memory, not just another experience but something and someone I want to hold on to for the rest of my life.

I was scared of loosing you and just the thought had me even more scared of not loving this way again. A love so strong that I can’t deny or let go and I don’t want to… I could go on living in denial or close my eyes and picture myself in a world where you never existed, but once I open my eyes there you are in my thoughts, in my heart and in every tear drop that starts to flow. I want to block each memory we shared but I can’t and as much as I want to, the more I accept what we shared was real… Our love - our life; it is real. The value of us is worth more than any pearl or diamond in this world. It is you that I love and I know we belong together – Soul Mates.

P.S If this isn’t real tell me what is? This is more than Love etc…

Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated. ~Lamartine


By O’Jay –Maria Harris

Dedicated to A. Morris

How To Find The Right Guy

We are not asking for a fairy tale life - Just a man who we could call our own

Finding the right guy means looking for someone special,
someone that will compliment us…

Let’s end the sob stories and move on, because I’m going set you ladies straight to a good start on meeting that right single guy.

1st step is making a list of the qualities you would truly admire in a partner.

2nd step is sharing the list with a girlfriend, so you could make sure your sticking to it.

3rd step ALWAYS LOOK GOOD!!

4th step Don’t be afraid to date, explore your options and start ticking off your list. This way you get to practice your flirting skills.

Ensure that your list is what you want in a man, but at the same time let’s be realistic and understand that he’s going come up short. So what you want to do is prioritize your list and if he doesn’t meet your standards, carefully throw him back out to sea. This is important because you want to be happy and once your happy he’s going to be happy!


I want a man who plays sports
So I can cheer him on in the stands
I will be his number one fan
Jumping and clapping if he wins or not
Run to him after the game and tell him what a wonderful he was out there!

I want a man who is a leader
One who is a positive feature to his job, company or church
I want to be there when he wants to do a role play
And tell him his speech was great
Go out there and knock um dead hun!

I want a man who will come home and say, "Babes I had a long day at work,
but I am going to help u in the kitchen to release the tension.

I want a man who will call when he knows I am having a rough day just to tell he loves me
A father figure to our children, religious, honest and someone who is going to encourage me to do my best, someone to compliment me, because that’s what he is getting. A great Woman